Sex before marriage continuation

Marriage counseling -  sex before marriage is it a sin before God?

Sex before marriage is a crime.

Text: Hebrew 13:4 Please use the AMPLIFIER version.

If a man loves a lady and wants to marry her, the first thought must not be in sex but rather what to do, to make it work it out honourably.

If you marry a lady and you don't pay her dowry and fulfil all marital rites, that marriage can never succeed and the blessings of God can never be seen in such a home. 

Sex before marriage is a crime before God. I Love you and I want to taste you before I marry you, is she a suya? 

My tribe, my family said she must give birth first before I marry her.

Brother, you are not a Christian; you and your tribe, your tradition, and your family or religion are demonic. What is written by God is final. Why are we always allowing traditions, family or tribe to thwart the scriptures? There's no woman God created to be barren. It's just that the powers of our fathers and mothers' houses and other enemies are sometimes the cause of some of our misfortune. God is not a wicked God.

If she succumbs to it due to the pressure, or out of desperation to get married maybe probably because of her age and time not on her side you take advantage of her and she takes in and you start making babies, you'll be raising bastards and cursed children by God. And what you do to get her, get ready your children will surely face it because you rob her parents of honour, mercy can't prevail here, if you like Kabash in tongues, even if God forgives you, you'll surely face the consequences or those children will be the ones to pay for it. THE GOLDEN RULES. OR SHOULD I CALL IT KARMA?

God says that He is a jealous God visiting the iniquities of the parents upon the children even up to the fourth generation

People dey take risk?  You are stealing her if you didn't pay her bride pride. And those children belong to her family.

If you love me sleep with me. Sister, don't you know that the glory of every marriage is in that sex and once they take it, game over. He can look elsewhere. Men always come around just for this. Get Sense, my friend.

You know when you see a guy or a man begging a lady and crying, shedding tears saying "I thought you said you love me, if you love me why no sex" My dear he wants to have sex and once he gets it, in his mind you are cheap. He'll not trust you because he will feel that anyone can easily manipulate you with tears and get down with you.

When a man asks for sex before marriage, he has an agenda. It's a sign of deceit and distrust that wants to take your glory. I no sey some people no get glory shaaa. These are the signs of fake intentions. Any lady or guy coming for you with fake tears needs something. I have a lady around me who since the first day she met me, she wants me to get down with her.

Only God knows her true intentions, and me self enh I get sense. I don't know whether she wants to comot my glory.

Men naturally were not wired to shed tears so why would a grown-up man be shedding tears? But you know when a man needs sex, he can beg a lady a cry for it. Asking her to prove her love for him.

And then I wondered is sex the only way she can prove her love? 

Brother hell dey wait you ooo.

Your hellfire go dey close to Satan. And you ladies, go and get your brains loaded with wisdom. Good sense!

You can't change this one or can you? If you like you hear me or like it. E go shock you when he or she go dump you? No matter your position, I don't care to know what you know but you see TRUTH, He will always prevail and the truth will always remain true. Are you surprised that I used "HE"? Because TRUTH is a personality. And that personality is God and Jesus Christ.

Don't you know, that in most Nigerian traditions if the lady you are making babies from dies and you didn't pay her bride price? You will need to marry her properly, before burial and you will need to kiss her, the dead body, yes you heard me, because she is your newly wedded wife. And you will pay heavily. 

I witnessed this happen to one of my bosses 5 years ago.

See how people are taking risks.

Written by Saviour M. Grace

Inspired by Apostle Isaac Auta

DVGC Church

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