THE ANGELS THERAPY
Greetings great people of the season here. Tonight I have come again with eye opening tips to follow to keep a long lasting and healthy relationship with your partner or spouse.
These tips may look so mere and common but needs to be taken good note of. NB.
1) Never compare your current partner to your Ex. Never raise issues concerning your past experiences with your Ex in any form of discussion as the case may be except you're been asked by your partner. In most cases it emasculates your partner and makes him or her feel so low, it's an unhealthy sign in a relationship that may later take a U-turn.
2)Your social life is supposed to be a part of your personality and features you come with but in order to grow a healthy relationship please learn to know how to limit your target in socialization and communications, I mean the unnecessary and flattery words you use. E.g. calling an opposite sex baby, boo, my boyfriend/girlfriend, my crush and so on. All these may accumulate and gradually become hidden thorns in a healthy relationship. Speak wisely and less and reciprocate all these words to your partner only.
3) Avoid making room for all your friends especially the opposite sex. Let them know you're now bound to someone therefore there should be limitations to your attendance to them when they call upon you. Don't give room or accomodate everyone as you used to. Maintain more of that for your partner. schedule yourself to meet up promptly and do other things instead, else you may be carried away. it's an unhealthy sign in a relationship.
4)This may seem common but one of the tragic signs in an unhealthy relationship. Whenever you're spending quality time with your partner never be interrupted with phone calls or messages let alone answer or reply them. it's very very unhealthy.
By right you should put your phone on a silent mode or better still seek permission and always be brief else when done the other way round it weakens the other person and makes him/her feel isolated and disrespected.
This eats into the feelings of one person raising mixed feelings as well. Give quality attention to your partner for as long as you both are together. These secrets are ignored and not taking to heart but for those that think am making sense, it's Reality Facts. Thank you.
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