The Wind of Love

To begin God is love and anyone who doesn’t love is of the devil and does not know God. Trust me not everyone who loves know what love is….. Yeah! Looking at the word Love, from my own aspect, I see love as a deep warm affection or emotion having for someone or yourself.

Trying to apply this short sentence in relationship really helps a lot. You can’t tell me you love a lady you recently proposed to and then her worries are like a breeze blown behind your ear……… come on love doesn’t work that way when you say you love someone or before you say so there is definitely something that draw your attention to that fellow that is either the person’s beauty, how he or she walks, talks, smiles or anything you can think at all.

Before walking up to the person and then your words is address at the specific point of attraction and when you are done, there is no positive respond…… don’t give up, you keep pushing. It is hard for a lady to easily fall in love with a guy, but if she easily does then you are now at a duty point of appreciating her by expressing your love, care, attention, decency and to crown it all your mode of approach at all-time matters a lot.

Are you now begging to love, who you want to love in the world of love? There is a say that “don’t start what you cannot finish”. When you begin to love her you don’t stop loving, rather you mellow yours to see if hers is active.

At this point you observe closely because we are in the world of love, at this point she will need your love like before your care from the starting and your attention to express her feelings.

You are not to maltreat, embarrass or be harsh to her especially in public, either deactivates your love and be watching her movement but make sure mode of approach remain constant so that she won’t have negative mind set on the relationship. At this point in time you will know if you have truly captured her heart or not.

Furthermore, your next steps are to appreciate her love with captivating gifts because love deserves it. You can’t say you love and hide your resources. I won’t last at all. But is should not be introduce at first because it will help you to crash the relationship faster. And then you can call her out on a date most especially surprising one and make it occasionally when she didn’t expect it.

In addition, never be a dull nigga or so novice in a relationship. Try to be romantic, it’s fun. When you are dull in a relationship, you tend to advertise your fiancé or fiancée if not it will look like a boring relationship. But note most ladies or guys don’t really like, but and know if you partner like it or not. You make sure you are jovial and do things that will always make her confident of you.

More so, do things that will make her have the boldness to stand out for you anywhere and never ne negative in her presence…….. Why??? Because of love, so cherish it. You don’t say you love and hurt you partner, that shows that you cannot sacrifice at all. And mind you introduce her to people most especially your relatives and friends.

Ah! Anh!! If there is anything a lady love most is total awareness that he is mine. And at times call her at midnight to make her feel tense, trust me that love and always appreciate her effort in any little thing he or she do because love worth it.

In all you must learn to be patience and tender in heart because without this two, your love is shallow mode of expression. In fact it is just a facial love that is after material things and not the soul to soul connection. And mind you have to learn and study your partner to know what he/she actually loves and hates so as to avoid hurting each other’s feelings and this require the place of patience.

And always learn to put yourself in her shoe, just feel how she does when your attention is divided from her that will even make you have more sympathy and affection with a tender heart towards your lover.

In conclusion of this episode, love is not greedy. Love is not pride and love is not affluence, but love is affection. Love is humility. Love is liberal.  Always show love even to those whom you think they don’t deserve it because they may even be the ones who are in the right position to have it.

I am a lover. I love because I believe when I love I also will be loved.

Thanks for reading.